Well Hunka has weighed in! Very Rarely will you find a Comment or (Once upon a Myspace) a Kudo from my Husband the Hottie aka David....I could call him a DILF but thats Holly's Husband....Dont want to confuse "Davids I like to F^CK" with "Dads I like to F^ck".....Moving on.....
On Fridays as many of you know we post two questions submitted for our advice, ie: the ladies of the blog....we open the comments up to you the reader, to weigh in! I appreciate all who read and all who read and comment....I especially appreciate all who tell their friends to read and comment and even more those who will submit a question to laynie2@gmail.com these can be anonymous we would NEVER out a submission!
Now with all the nice~it~ies in place!
Hunka?! With all the love in my heart I can muster....Kiss my Ass!
Ladies and Readers.... Hunka just said: I, the Wonder Muffin of Muffins, was "the devil" and that I was a "Complete Bitch" to "Thinks Ive Been Cheated On"....REALLY? Am I a Bitch, Hunka? Just cuz you weren't the Husband/Boyfriend/Partner that walked this path, doesn't mean Im wrong in my advise! AND you think my advice was mean? TO WHO? to Thinks they've been cheated on? Puleasssse! Thinks already Thinks they've been cheated on and a girl knows this shit in the core of her guts! She basically wanted permission to spy....and I gave her the green light and the ammunition to shoot from her gun when its time to call the fucker out! OH and He Needs to be Called out!
Hunka You are the perfect man in many ways, but a cheater is a cheater....there is no nice way to package his ass.....unless its in a coffin....JUST SAYIN'!
Also for my beautiful niece's and nephews near and far and You too EJHJ...You are more then welcome to comment these blogs, as long as you know they are not written for your entertainment but rather for mine! Auntie Muffin/Mommy does in deed love you!~
~X~Smooches~X~ The Devil Muffin
Dear Fellow Betties.......do you get the feeling more then just "Feels Cheated" On relates to that question presented in Fridays blog? It seems too many people have taken a personal notion towards that blog....Hunka wonders :"What did she do to make her Boyfriend find *Ahem* "friends" outside of their relationship?" Ahhh! Isnt it Just like a man to pose such a query?!
ReplyDeleteThere are three different kinds of advice to follow, which is why it works so well to have more than one Betty. It's funny that out of three women and one man, the man is the only one to blame the victim and asks what she could possibly have done to "make him" do such a thing. Conspiracy! The men are acting against us!!!!
ReplyDeleteHunka is one hunka, let me tell ya! But my, he looks familiar! Did you steal him from Sarah Palin? ;)
The conspiracy is in deed the penis! We vagina's need to stick together~ Oh HOLLA~ that didn't sound right...Sticky vagina's..EWWW!!..NEXT LOL~
ReplyDeleteLove to the Hunka! He is indeed EYE CANDY!
Looks a lot like a hottie from a boy band from back in the day.....
I like a man who knows how to wear his pants. Hunka looks like he knows how to wear his pants.
ReplyDeleteFunny how you mention he looks like the former Alaskan 1st Dude, I have heard that...He is Hunky....Both Mr Palin and Hunka that is! Sarah Palin makes me wanna poke my eyes out though! Lets not go there!
ReplyDeleteOh here I am to weigh in on this. I don't know Hunka, and I guess I would say he knows how to wear his pants as Twills did (whatever it means) but Hunka, you are waaaaaay outnumbered here. There are two women giving answers that have had this happen to us, and we know what cheating feels like. I would be willing to bet feels cheated on did what I and your lovely wife did...NOTHING. I was cheated on, and it hurt. I stand by my advice tellinh her to get the hell out, and, on the way out, kick him in the junk.
ReplyDeleteRUN David. They are ferocious in a pack...
ReplyDeleteOk call me a Benedict Arnold but before we throw him under the bus let us play Devil advocate or Microsoft's as the case is now. 1 truely we only have the one side of the story. 2 she may or may not be horrible person to live with or overly sensitive. Now that said she has every right to feel hurt and slighted but may be instead of cyper stalking she could IDK just leave. It's hard to be #2 in a relationship especially to a Darn computer... Now #3 muffin we all love you but as a family you and all of us now how blunt we can be and not everybody realizes we are agreeing with them at times. PS wall of shame is alil harsh (funny but harsh)
ReplyDeleteIts suppose to be my Shame and he is suppose to agree with me until death do us Part cuz I said so! Now what?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure that as soon as the Muffin flashes that smile (and maybe a little leg), all will be forgiven.
ReplyDeleteSee Holly Gets it!
ReplyDeleteThere are always three parties involved in a situation like this. One is the person who justifies that their interactions with another person outside of their real-life relationship isn't really cheating though he/she still keeps it private from their significant other. The other is the person on the other end who is participating in this online relationship and is either in the same mindset as the first person or is ignorant of the feelings of the third person involved.
ReplyDeleteThe last person, usually perceived as the 'victim' in all of this, is the one left on the outside because they are denied the feelings and interactions taking place between the first two. But they can also be pointed out as the 'instigator', a catalyst for the other two to find a connection with each other and compensate for something that their real-life partners aren't providing for them. That's not always the case, but without knowing all the personal details and circumstances, we can only assume and speculate on any given case.
The fact is, carrying on an online relationship is no different than carrying on a real-life relationship with someone else. If you cannot be open about your conversations or interactions with your true-life partner, then you are withholding personal experiences or ideas that from them that they most likely would want to share with you. That, in essence, is "cheating". And I can say from personal experience, having been each one of the people at one time or another, that no matter who's to blame, everyone gets hurt.
And the Room Leaps to their feet and applauds you Louminator!
ReplyDeleteI bow and am Humbled by your post! Thanks to you!
The Louminator needs to be a "Guest Betty" sometime. :)
ReplyDeleteI've never been a "Betty" before, guest or otherwise. But I would be happy to accept that invitation whenever it is made.
ReplyDeleteWe'll let you know well in advance for sure.
ReplyDeleteThe best defense is a good offense! And why does the chick have to resort to spying? If she suspects it, she should leave him because she obviously doesn't trust him and without trust, there can be no relationship.
ReplyDeleteNow, if he has money and the chick likes living the good life that money can bring, then I'd stay and put up with the cheating.
And don't anybody get all pissed off at this comment because lots of women do that (stay with the cheater when they know he's cheating).
Lil Debin's A Girls gotta do what a Girls Gotta do! I know my self esteem can be bought and as soon as I get them Lifted and reshaped I'll email pictures of them! Imma name them Paris and Nicole....cuz I loved them being together!.....O wait......Sorry, Nother Blog for another time.... :}
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